Tuesday, August 09, 2011
Westin Buckhead review
Thursday, August 04, 2011
Growing a Greener Haiku Contest!
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Topiary flamingo
plants, moss, and flowers put together. I think it is because I like the
idea of using something pretty to create another something. Having
pretty flowers attached to a wire frame design creates a sweet smelling,
arrangment. It is also interesting to see what plants are used for
particular features because of their colors or textures. It is not
enough to plant flowers on to the wire frame, but it takes a certain
amount of design ability and coordination also.
I wish that I had the talent to create topiaries and take care of them.
I have a difficult time just trying to keep a plant in a pot alive so I
know that the topiary expertise is probably out of the question.
Although I cannot maintain one, I do admire its beauty and commend the
hard work to create this temporary masterpiece.
If you are ever in Greenwood SC during the month of June, you should take the topiary walk. To know more about it, check out http://www.scfestivalofflowers.org/
Monday, July 25, 2011
Breck's - North Charleston dive
Joseph of Charleston
featured on Food Network programs. For breakfast Sunday morning, I
decided to go to Joseph's of Charleston that was featured on Anthony
Bourdain's No Reservations. Since the restaurant is on Meeting Str and
it is somewhat difficult to find parking downtown in that area, I spent
about 15-20 minutes circling the area to find a parking space that was
not too far out of walking distance. So after I spent considerable
amount of effort to get there, it was disheartening to walk up and see
the sign saying the establishment is closed.
That was not enough.
They want me to visit one of their sister locations. At this point, it
does not matter how good the food is at their other restaurants. They
are obviously paying the web hosting for the www.josephsofcharleston.com
website which gives people false hope of being able to enjoy a great
breakfast at that specific location. The least they could do was to have
a note on the front page of that website that is the same as the sign on
the door.
This restaurant group lost my business because I did not want the
headache. I am not walking all over downtown, especially in this heat,
to find their restaurants. Marketing Lesson 101 - Update your
website!!!!
After that fiasco, I went to a restaurant that was not on Food Network
but came highly recommended by a friend - Crave in Mount Pleasant. Great
restaurant with ambiance and killer brunch menu. But more on that in a
later post with pictures to match. Yummm!
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Herman Cain
Herman Cain is such an idiot. I do not understand why people keep tolerating his ignorant behavior. At first it was funny to hear some of the off the wall things he was saying. But now, it is just so sad. More closed minded talk from someone who professes to promote peace but is really about war. Reminds me of the book 1984. The Ministry of Peace was actually promoting war.
This world needs REAL, lasting change. I can't wait until that happens.
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Nature programs rant
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Tony's Oyster Bar - Cary NC
Tony's Oyster Bar in Cary NC
The food started off great but then declined rapidly by the time I got to the main course.
Netflix
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Poetry - Seize Life
Monday, July 11, 2011
Poetry - Vocal Bandit
Friday, July 08, 2011
FREE WHOLE **ENTREE** at chick fil a today.
The costume is just little pieces like the ears and nose & sign and just tape it …
http://www.cowappreciationday.com/assets/external/pdf/CowParts.pdf

Chick-Fil-A is sponsoring Cow Appreciation Day on Friday, July 8th. Dress up like a cow and you will receive a free meal! If you only wear a partial costume, you are eligible for a free entrée
Parking in Philly
Tip of the Day: If you don't want a ticket when parking on the street in Philly, make sure you pay for your parking! If you have your doubts that this will work, watch Parking Wars and you will understand completely.
Wearing school uniforms- PRO
Why do students attend school? Is school to be likened to a fashion show? Is it for the purpose of learning? One would respond without hesitation that students attend school to learn and broaden their knowledge of various subjects. When public schools require their students to wear uniforms, they are removing a variable that can become a distraction to the learning process. Wearing uniforms create unity among the students, prevent discrimination based on clothing, and reduce discipline problems.
When uniforms are required, all students look the same. The harmony of the clothing can work to unify the student body. For example, there is no way to determine if a student if from a rich family or poor family when everyone is dressed in a uniform.
Wearing uniforms at school limits discrimination based on clothing. For example, a student may wear clothing with colors associated with a local gang. The teacher may discriminate against that student because he thinks that that student does not care about learning. What the teacher does not know is that student only wears the gang colors to prevent problems with the local gang. The student wants to learn in order to advance himself, but because of the teacher’s assessment, is not given the opportunity. If the school required student uniforms, the teacher would not have made an incorrect assessment based on the student’s attire.
Wearing a uniform can reduce discipline problems. Although schools have decency policies regarding dress, many students choose to dress in an indecent manner. However, this can be avoided when uniforms are required. Students will have definite, instead of subjective, guidelines as to what is accepted dress. The clear boundaries will help to prevent discipline problems.
At times, clothes can be used as a means to divide one another. Incorrect conclusions are sometimes drawn solely by observing the way a person is dressed. Wearing uniforms can prevent some problems and actually work to create unity in the school. Additionally, requiring uniforms in school is teaching an important lesson for young people. Although they may come from different backgrounds and have different types of families, they are learning to treat everyone equally.
Thursday, July 07, 2011
today in news July 7 2011
http://www.newser.com/story/122802/show-off-mistress-tips-chinese-to-red-cross-graft.html
Human nature gets people in trouble all the time. I guess the enjoyment of material things is not complete unless there is a way to show off one’s ill gotten gains. Reminds of a girl that was featured on MTV Sweet 16 program and that is how some people looking for father found him (he had embezzled a lot of money from them). For the complete story, google it. Yea yea. I know I am vague with details. The point is, you would think that people who are stealing, embezzling, or siphoning money would keep a lower profile so as not to draw attention to the fact that they are STEALING! But the impulse to brag is too great. It just goes to show that money cannot buy happiness.
http://www.newser.com/story/122810/guys-need-hugs-more.html
I knew guys needed more hugs, but hubby is not convinced. I guess we will have to try out our own experiments with me giving him more hugs daily. I know, in 10-15 years, he will thank me for my persistence.
http://www.newser.com/story/122812/tabloid-suspected-of-hacking-phones-linked-to-war-dead.html
Rupert Murdoch is most likely Darth Vader with the goal to take over the world with his empire of news organizations which sway public opinion. There is corruption in so many other areas, why am I not surprised about this. I am not saying that everyone who works is his organization is corrupt, but I think more often than not, their journalistic integrity is called into question and it becomes a choice if they want to keep their jobs. And in this economy, many will sell their souls to the devil if they think it will help them support their families or further their careers.
Trump needs to concentrate on his hair rather than trying to stay in the news with this presidential nonsense. He says it is real but it really looks like a bad toupee. All the money he has and he cannot afford a decent stylist. Why doesn’t he put his supposed financial talents to good use and help some non-profit organizations? Really work with them and not take the easy way out and just write a check. Donate time at a homeless shelter or soup kitchen.
Friday, June 24, 2011
Poetry - Fatal Wounds
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Brookstone lodge - Asheville
The Brookstone Lodge is a hotel in Asheville that is about five minutes from Biltmore House. If you want to go to Biltmore, you can buy tickets from the front desk.
The price per night averaged $100 which was fine considering the location. The room was nothing special. The décor appeared to be rustic style, but I could tell that the hotel had been recently built. I did have one complaint about our room- the door did not fit the door frame. When the door was closed, there was about a half an inch gap above the door. The door locked, but it was still a little unnerving to know there was not a tight seal around the door.
For the first night, we ordered the romance package- included champagne, 2 glasses, candles, matches and chocolates. All for $30. It was cute but in retrospect I should have brought my own “romance package”. In my head, I thought there would be more to the package but it was just as they described. The champagne was local sparkling wine from the Biltmore winery. The champagne flute glasses looked as if they were from Pier 1 or some equivalent store. The candles were two small tea lights in little candle holders. The chocolates were a small package of wrapped chocolates, no special name brand.
They offered a free deluxe continental breakfast from 7 – 10 on weekends. To me, it left something to be desired. The scrambled eggs needed seasoning. The only breakfast meat they offered was sausage (I like bacon). They had strawberry yogurt, fruit, grits, biscuits, Danishes and bagels. I don’t like grits. Their biscuits were too doughy. The bagels and fruit were okay.
Overall, the room was comfortable, but I would not have considered it to be luxury accommodations. The wait staff were friendly and helpful. The front desk personnel gave tips about area restaurants and fun things to do. I can understand the room rate for the area, but next time for a more romantic experience, I might try a bed and breakfast for about the same price. I would recommend Brookstone Lodge for families visiting Asheville.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Sullivan's Steakhouse - Raleigh NC
The service is what I expected. The wait staff had great energy and they were very attentive. They were always coming around asking if had everything we needed. He wanted to know we liked the martini (I think it is called a knock out). It some sort of fruit macerated in vodka for about two weeks.
The appetizer the crabcake that was delicious. There was very little filler of breading, just giant pieces of lump crab.
For my main course, I had lamb chops. These were the best lamb chops I've ever had - seared just like I like them, medium rare and not over cooked. I chose the Cabernet goat cheese butter. Truthfully, the flavored butter was over kill because the flavor of the lamb chops was superb. The grilled chops were lightly seasoned with salt and pepper. I also ordered the sweet potato casserole for my side. Tasty mounds of sweet potatoes were topped with pecans, brown sugar, and butter. There were enough sweet potatoes for 2 people.

Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Homework Assignment - Body Ritual part II
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Homework Assignment: Body Ritual part I
Homework Assignment - Body ritual explained
I had to write a paper explaining a body ritual done by Americans but in the form of a paper that would be written by an anthropologist who had no prior knowledge of the customs or rituals of these people. I have divided the paper in three different sections posted to here. I am interested in knowing what you think.
Jack of the Wood - Asheville, NC
Bar Downtown
Service was not that great. They need a sign at the door that says you need to find your own table. There was no hostess. We wandered around the crowded restaurant until we found wait staff to ask about where to sit and they said "anywhere you can find a spot".
I ordered fish and chips. That was very good. The batter on the fish was light but crispy.
I probably would come back IF a band I knew was playing, but other than that...I would rather try another restaurant. Too many interesting spots in Asheville to just go to the same place over and over ;)
Friday, May 27, 2011
sharing a review from a friend
Monday, May 16, 2011
Mother Earth
Wednesday, May 04, 2011
new food product
I love Dole Fruit Crisp. I like the apple cinnamon one. It is like eating apple crisp on demand. Awesome! I don't have to peel apples or make sure I have oatmeal in the house. Just heat up my apples and sprinkle on my crispy granola bits. And at 160 calories a serving, I don't feel guilty eating even if I did do my exercises for the day. Win-win all around.
Monday, May 02, 2011
Firestorm Cafe and Books - Asheville NC
Firestorm Cafe and Books (www.firestormcafe.com )is a coffee and tea shop near the corner of Coxe Ave and Commerce Str in downtown Asheville.
I tried the Spring Jasmine tea and I was not disappointed. It was a fragrant as I expected.
I loved the atmosphere of this little restaurant that was otherwise hidden a block away, down the hill from Patton Ave.
They had a selection of sandwiches, soups, salads, and other goodies that make this worth a stop if you are downtown.
And don’t forget to peruse the numerous books available.
To me, this quirky place has more character than all the Starbucks in Seattle!
Friday, April 15, 2011
Foodie Restaurant Review Greenwood SC - R3
Monday, April 04, 2011
hotel review- Emory Inn - Atlanta GA
Monday, March 21, 2011
Poem: When Peace Comes
Read this poem at the Peace Conference International Dinner Friday March 18, 2011
When Peace Comes
In the darkness, gloom reigns supreme
loyal subjects corruption, hatred, chaos
lurk during the night like insidious monsters
whose aspiration is to disrupt tranquility
leaving the human race chained together, enslaved in misery
a dire situation, a bleak reality
but all is not lost
the human race is living in anticipation of a dawn of a new day
conquering gloom’s darkness with brilliant light
rays of sunshine reveal serenity and peace
reaching every corner of the earth
war and hate mongers dissipate into oblivion
racial harmony blooms releasing its fragrant odor like gardenias in Springtime
optimism permeates the mind and unlocks the invisible bond of servitude
only then can humanity experience
real happiness, genuine joy, and lasting peace
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Quick Review
Thursday, March 10, 2011
The Look
Monday, March 07, 2011
Unreciprocated love
Each day seems like another eternity
Surprised I have survived
Exhausted from trying to maintain some semblance of calm
Internally, uncertainty has me bound and wound
He does not know how unyielding his grip
around my precious heart
unreciprocated love is sorrow
but there is no benefit in crying, so eyes remain dry
unreciprocated love is pain which has fatigued my spirit,
leaving me a shell of who I used to be
all the while, reminding myself that this shall pass,
but wanting to know when.
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Movies I have seen recently
500 days of Summer
The best thing about this movie was the soundtrack. The storyline is about a boy and girl who date but only the boy is love. She dumps him and he broods, wondering what went wrong because they seemed so happy. I was annoyed by the girl’s lack of empathy for what the boy was feeling. Since she did not feel the same way, she discounted his feelings. I liked her less because of that. This is not a feel good movie. This is probably more of a I-just-broke-up-and-need-to-mope type of movie.
Friends with Money
There seemed that there was no real point to this movie. Jennifer Anniston’s character is friends with people who are a lot more successful/wealthier than she. At one point one of the friends discusses with her husband if they should hire Anniston’s character to be their maid to help her out with clients. For rich people, they were a little down to earth. And Anniston’s character did not spend the whole time trying to bum off of her rich friends. That being said, she still has her major issues with life. I am happy that it all works out for her in the end.
Wednesday, February 09, 2011
sadness strikes again
Last night I received awful news that the father of one of my close friends died. I still feel sick in the pit of stomach and I can only attribute it to my overwhelming sadness. It seems like so many people I know are dying. I could not sleep last night, so I channel that emotion into a poem. The therapy worked and I was able to get to sleep. I am still a little teary eyed today, but at least I can talk without breaking down into tears.
Appreciate Time
Caught up in the day to day routine
life is so busy, so frenetic
there is no time,
no time to visit friends
no time to enjoy the Saturday afternoon
while sitting on their porch in a rocking chair
drinking a cup of tea or lemonade
but then tragedy strikes, and they are gone
death has dealt a blow to their family, their friends, and me
I am left with only vague memories and
regrets of time which could have been spent more wisely
I should have…
if only I had made the time
I feel nothing but sorrow and a dull ache
a result of the knowledge
I have deprived myself of experiences with friends
because I was too busy to slow down
too busy to take the time to appreciate life
written in memory of W. Hill & J. Moran
best potato chips
There is something about Schlotzsky’s jalapeno chips that makes them so very addictive to me. They are thin, but not too thin. They are not overly greasy. The seasoning is a perfect combination of salty and spicy that makes me crave the whole bag. My guilty pleasure. The only potato chips that I can eat the whole bag and still want more.
Thursday, February 03, 2011
late night ramblings
I came the realization that America is really a nation of bullies. From the formation of this country, settlers “discovered” a new land and proceeded to kill/rape/conquer the natives and claim the land as their own. Then they enslaved other national groups and use the free labor to build their wealth and power.
Over the years, things have not improved. Although there is better technology, the same aggressive attitude remains. Most people cannot be bothered with facts or common sense, but they are content to be spoon fed propaganda fed to them through media outlets that promote division, hate, and violence. To hear them tell it, God only loves America. The texts that say “God is Love” and that “God is not partial” mean nothing to them. No. God wants them to convert the world or die trying. Wait, they would rather send someone else’s sons and daughters to do that. But it is for a good cause, so it is supposedly worth it. War-loving Americans, with their bullish attitude, are trying to influence the world. But then there is more money to be made in war than peace.
In the end that is what America is really all about – MONEY
It is so sad for everyone involved.
Monday, January 31, 2011
Good Cuban Food in ATL
When I am in Atlanta and I want good Cuban food, I go to Papis (216 Ponce de Leon). They have daily specials that include a choice of meat, white or yellow rice, beans, fried ripe plantains (platanos maduros), and salad for less than $10.
When you walk in, you hear Spanish music playing throughout the restaurant and the place is full of people eating and talking loudly. It’s the LATIN way. The place is decorated with picture of Cuban life. The atmosphere might lead you believe that you stepped into a restaurant in Havana. You seat yourself and wait for someone to give you a menu. If I based this location on the service alone, I would probably not go. Some of the wait staff are not always as friendly as they could be. They are cordial enough, but I cannot if tell if they are pleased to have my business or annoyed that they have another table to wait on. Fortunately for them, the food is awesome!
My last visit I had jerk chicken and my friend has ropa vieja (cut of thinly sliced beef with onions). The food was full of flavor – very delicious!
We had so much food that we did not order dessert. But they have tres leches and flan. One day I will go just for dessert just for that.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Reflections of a Star
Night illuminated by a full moon
Stars shine brightly, big and small
Twinkling, moving as if they were participating
in a well choreographed celestial dance
As I stare upward
lost in the magnitude of the universe
deep in thought
meditating, ruminating, wondering, reflecting
on the particulars of my life
recalling every special event
asking myself what is my purpose
why am I here and
how can I make a difference
walking along as the moon lights my path,
however miniscule I realize each star plays a part in the cosmos
for I am like the small, shining star
Participating in this thing called life
Recognizing I am important
to complete a masterpiece
with seemingly insignificant ways
I make a difference
By spreading positivity, joy, and happiness
Monday, January 24, 2011
Visit Belize City
When you land in Belize at the Phillip Goldson airport, you might feel a wee bit nervous. The small wheels will jostle as the plane touches down on the bumpy, worn asphalt runway. The chances are that the weather will be sunny and you will bask in the Caribbean heat.
What should you expect if you are visiting Belize City?
Belize City has an atmosphere that is quiet and relaxing. For the most part, the people are friendly and welcoming to visitors. Some people might find that locals are very persistent when trying to sell their handmade goods. Just remember that many people in Belize are poor and they depend on tourist dollars to support themselves. If a person seems to be interested in buying something, a Belizean will try to make a sale.
The downtown area of Belize City is small enough that a person could walk around to most of the stores. Although tourist may walk around during the day, it is not advisable to walk about the city at night.
One store that is very popular is Brody’s. It is similar to Wal-Mart in the sense that they sell a lot of different items. They sell foodstuffs, liquor, house wares, cosmetics, personal care items, souvenirs, and have a pharmacy. It is one stop shopping and the prices are competitive to many tourist shops.
If you want to eat like the locals, a visit to a local restaurant called Ditz is in order. Ditz has been serving locals for years. An example of the items on their menu includes tacos and empanadas. They also sell a lot of different desserts. Two popular treats are coconut tarts and caramel cake.
There are a few nice hotels in Belize. Baltimore Best Western and The Princess Hotel and Casino are two of the most popular. Baltimore Best Western is situated about 10 minutes from downtown. The Princess Hotel and Casino is on the waterfront. Both have restaurants and bars. The food at the Baltimore Best Western is less expensive but not lower quality. Of the two, Baltimore Best Western is a quieter hotel. The Princess Hotel and Casino is busier because of the Casino. A lot of locals also go to the Princess.
If you are looking for an adventure, Belize City is a great place to visit.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Innocence Lost
Like one would spit out chewing gum that has lost its flavor
She was unceremoniously cast aside
She cannot understand the cruel, evil game where she was an unknowing participant
A sinister plot to steal her most valued asset by
Tricking her into giving it to him willingly
He must be laughing at her now
Pleased she did not detect his lies,
So amused with her naivety.
All that is left is her vitriolic, acerbic feelings of bitterness.
Damn him to hell.
Friday, January 14, 2011
Concise Movie Reviews
Couples Retreat – had its funny parts but was not as funny overall as expected. The yoga guy made for some interesting scenes.
The Other Guys – had its funny parts but was not as funny overall as expected. And I was a little confused as to the point of the movie.
Salt – was action packed and although I do not like Angelina Jolie (for reasons that will not be explained here) I think she did a good job with this character. Some of her action moves stretch believability but so does some of the stuff that James Bond does.
Valentine’s Day – had its corny parts but still a cute date movie.
Vampires Suck – A complete WASTE of time and money. I would suggest you do your laundry by hand than watch this movie. Totally disgusted at how NOT FUNNY this movie was. Ughhhhh.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Thursday, January 06, 2011
Review Simply Massage Greenville
Make sure you ask for PATTY!!!!
I chose to go to Simply Massage because I received a special deal certificate on an hour long massage. Before booking my massage, I did not know they were located next to Whole Foods on Woodruff Road.
I did not know what to expect, so I checked out their website. It was suggested that first time client arrive 10 – 15 minutes earlier than scheduled appointment. When I arrived, I liked the warm, inviting environment. The music playing was soft and relaxing.
The receptionist greeted me as soon as I walked in the door. She asked me to complete a questionnaire. They wanted general information about health problems. When I completed that, the receptionist told me that my massage therapist would be available shortly because she was finishing another appointment. While I waited, she also asked if I wanted something to drink. They had hot/cold water available. There were different varieties of tea along with sweeteners honey, sugar, and Splenda.
While I was drinking my tea, my massage therapist named Patty, approached me to lead me into one of the massage rooms. She asked me what I wanted to achieve from getting the massage and I told her that I wanted to relax. I said that I like deep tissue massages because I have tense muscles in my shoulders.
Once she started, I could feel myself drifting off to sleep. Between the ambient music and kneading of my muscles, I could not fight the feeling any longer. Then Patty woke me up and said that she was leaving the room so that I could get dressed. When I got up, I could not believe how relaxed I felt. All the tension that I previously felt was gone.
Rathbun in Atlanta
Thursday, January 21, 2010
New cake shop in Greenwood South Carolina
The other day, I went to the newest cake shop in Greenwood. It is called Cake Decor.
I bought the key lime cupcake and sampled their pound cake. I really liked both items. On the scale of what is good in Greenwood, I think it is the best that I have tasted so far. The cupcake was moist and not overly sweet. I could taste lime in the cake. The lime color of the cupcake was a treat for my eyes too. The buttercream frosting was smooth but not grainy. The flavor of the key lime was balanced with the sweetness so that the frosting was not too tart or too sweet. The pound cake tasted like it was homemade. There was rich, buttery goodness about it without being too greasy.
I thought that the cupcakes could have had more frosting to cover to the edge of the cupcake, but that is all the criticism that I have.
Overall, they are selling a very tasty, scrumptious product and I hope that they do well because Greenwood needs a decent dessert shop.
See what they have for yourself at www.cakedecoronline.com
Maybe they will be thankfully for this free advertising and gift me a couple of cupcakes --- hint hint ---- Cake Decor. I would be willing to be the official cake tester and reviewer.







